Before we meet

Please share a little about yourself, your preferred date and time, and how long you’d like to spend together. A thoughtful introduction helps me understand your plans and whether we’re likely to enjoy each other’s company.

Screening is required before we meet. You may provide a photograph of your driver’s licence, along with a picture of you holding it to confirm, or a link to an active and established LinkedIn profile. Please also include a brief personal introduction. Feeling comfortable with one another begins well before our first meeting.

I respond selectively to complete, courteous enquiries. Missing information, inappropriate language, or a request that doesn’t feel like a suitable match may mean you won’t receive a response. Please avoid submitting repeated requests if your first enquiry goes unanswered. Persistent messages may result in being blocked.

A 50% deposit is required to confirm your booking, payable by etransfer or Wise. Your reservation is confirmed once the necessary screening and deposit arrangements are complete.

Please let me know as early as possible if you need to cancel or reschedule. Deposits are non-refundable and serve as the cancellation fee. Whether a deposit can be transferred to a future booking is at my discretion, taking the circumstances and notice provided into account. Missed appointments and last minute cancellations require payment of the full booking amount.

Courtesy, respect and personal safety are essential throughout our correspondence and our visit. Disrespectful behaviour or conduct that makes me feel unsafe may result in the booking being declined or ended, with forfeiture of your deposit and any other payments made.

I’m organized and direct when arranging a booking, but in person you’ll find a warmer, more playful side of me. I enjoy easy conversation, shared laughter, and discovering what makes someone interesting. If you enjoy planning, I’d love to see what you have in mind. If you’d prefer some inspiration, I’m happy to help shape our plans.

Travel may be possible with sufficient advance notice. Please include your destination and proposed dates when enquiring. All travel expenses and a 50% booking deposit must be paid in advance to confirm a travel booking.

Of course you’re welcome to share a preference ahead of our meeting. I choose clothing appropriate to the setting, whether we’re heading to dinner, an event or something more relaxed. If your request involves an item I don’t already own, it will need to be gifted in advance, allowing enough time for me to purchase it.